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Discussion explaining to people that they should stock up on craft supplies, sewing and quilting supplies so that they will have materials on hand to make their own clothes, blankets, household useful items. During the coming depression you are not going to be able to go out and buy many items. But if you have crafting supplies already on hand, then you can make your own items. Some items I would have on hand: Fabric (material) thread needles sewing machine batting scissors measuring tape or yard stick buttons elastic zippers snaps cutting mat rotary cutter bias tape ribbon yarn knitting needles glue glue sticks glue gun wood tools nails screws bolts paint stain pillow stuffing paint brushes crochet thread patterns for men, women and children in your family’s sizes iron or press If you folks have any other tips or items, please share them in the comments section

I recall reading an article in the UK press about the revenge taken by a “woman scorned”.  Her response to her husband’s affair was very dramatic to say the least; she cut the legs and arms off all of his suits and then set about distributing the contents of his celebrated wine cellar around the village in which they lived – one or two bottles on each and every doorstep, together with their morning milk delivery!  Quite inventive.  And then I’m sure we all read about the case of a certain man whose furious wife decided that cutting legs off suits simply wasn’t enough and took a knife to his manhood instead.  I subsequently read that he turned this to his advantage by becoming a porn star;  Apparently so many people wanted to see his “wotsit”, he not only had it sewn back on again, he had a couple of inches added aswell!

This doesn’t appear to be an uncommon occurrence; just Google “cut off his willy” and there are numerous references to this form of revenge.  In fact I did hear that some ladies have taken this one step further, and attached their partners’ manhood to helium balloons so as to ensure that they would not be able to have them sewn back on again. Ouch!

What is the message being conveyed?  Is the aim simply to make sure that they won’t be able to do THAT again?  Or “you hurt me and so I’ll hurt you”, in the spirit of “an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth”?  Or is it to expose their actions to the world at large, to embarrass them just as you feel you have been embarrassed? Is it simply a way of lashing out?  All of the above are intertwined, I’m sure.

Not everyone responds in such a dramatic manner.  Have you watched the film “the women”?  It’s an intriguing film, with Meg Ryan (in the most recent version) playing the housewife who thinks everything is running along quite smoothly….until she discovers her husband’s dalliance with the perfume girl in their local upscale store.  This film depicts every type of woman, all ages, shapes, sizes and mentalities – and each has their own take on how the husband should be dealt with.  The mother’s is the voice of reason (and experience) recommending  a stiff upper lip combined with a period of playing hard to get, and letting him know what he is missing.  Sensible woman – this approach was working rather well, until friends added their opinions into the mix!

But, how do you control your emotions, and turn a blind eye, when your heart is breaking?  And how do you know if your partner is just having a minor dalliance or if they have really fallen in love?  It’s very difficult, if not impossible, to be logical when your emotions are involved.  Logic and emotions are like “oil and water” and rarely do they mix well in these circumstances.  In fact whenever you are confronted with a situation perceived as a threat (and this type of circumstance definitely falls into that category) your higher brain functions are effectively cut off, ensuring that you cannot think logically.  One has to step back and calm down before your logical brain can re-engage.  Your emotions definitely need to be managed in such circumstances. And hypnosis can be invaluable here.

Whether it’s best to lash out or to turn a blind eye is a matter of personal opinion.  Either way, there’s a lot you can do to help yourself to think logically and deal with an undesirable situation in the most effective manner possible.  And if it does end in a permanent rift, it’s massively important to be your own best friend and to make it as easy as possible for you to move on.  There is an art to moving on after a broken relationship, but you can learn it, and apply it.  Hypnosis is extremely useful in all this as in itself it is a state of relaxation, and allows you to take a step back and think logically;  you can rebuild your confidence and see things from a different angle with a few well placed suggestions…and prepare yourself to attract a better partner into your life.

Roseanna Leaton

BSc (Hons)(Psych), DHP, MIAPH

http://www.RoseannaLeaton.com

Roseanna Leaton

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In this video, I’ll show you how to glue straight and curved seams. In the video I already cleaned the seams with mineral spirit and applied the glue. Visit www.makinglatexclothing.com to learn to make your own latex clothing.

Your personal theme can be changed, just like you change the theme of your browser or your computer. Your theme is built from partly what you have experienced in your life, partly what you have been taught, and partly from you genetics. These are the recurrent attitudes you approach life with. That’s your theme.

If you are worried constantly, “easy to anger”, take life with a “grain of salt”, are “always optimistic” about what is going to turn up – these are all life themes.

You change them, like any habit, through substituting another habit for them. Yes, attitudes are habits. They are adopted by repetition.

You can control any of your attitudes, and should. Just as you stand out if you are laughing at the wrong point in a theater or crying when everyone is jubilant around you at a football game, you attitudes should be appropriate for what is going on around you. This doesn’t mean you agree with everyone’s reactions – but you can decide whether you want to call attention to yourself.

I covered this point of controlling your attitudes in my book “Go Thunk Yourself(TM)!” Re-programming your habits was covered in my “Go Thunk Yourself, S’more!”.

Of course, I’m doing this for myself as I write this. The re-programming I’ve been doing in my own life has some interesting results so far. The program, as you may recall, is to play “The Secret” DVD several times every day for at least 30 days – and follow the tips and techniques in this DVD. You can also use Earl Nightingale’s “The Strangest Secret”.

I often listen to this as background while I am doing other work. What I’ve found is that my basic core attitudes have been changing. The text of the DVD has been becoming almost subliminal – listening to something like this makes it become nearly learned by rote, you often know the upcoming part and what is going to be said next. This is the exact point. If you can find a single recording which has a complete system on it, playing it over and over enables you to learn this and reprogram your life with it. There aren’t a lot of these recordings, but you will find that many authors such as Wayne Dyer and Earl Nightingale said to constantly play other self-help tapes in your life, to surround you with these articles, books and so on. You are going to reprogram yourself in this fashion.

Oddly, you can do this by simply turning off your radio, TV and reading less newspapers during your day. It’s interesting to see how quiet things are and what thoughts now come into your mind. If you do this, you can see what you are constantly thinking about during the day – what your “theme” is in life. You will see what your attitudes are and how you deal with things around you. Because you aren’t constantly being inundated with stories of the dead, dying, or threatening – you now have time to track your own thoughts. And then you can decide whether you want to change them or not.

Reprogramming is like gradually replacing all the colored clothes with whites or vice-versa. You mostly only can pull out a single item at a time and sometimes you pull out the wrong thing – but it’s ok to drop something back in. Sometimes you don’t have a choice, since a white long-sleeved shirt might be entangled with a pair of jeans. But you simply take out the pair, untangle them, and then put back in the one you want.

As you play an MP3 or DVD daily, you start to give yourself a recurrent line of thought to compare your other thoughts with. What I’ve found is that this method will show up a regular and definite chronic line of thought in your life. With “The Secret” DVD, I’m starting to change any old patterns of self-doubt, anxiety, temper with the positive emotions I really always have cherished. Only now, I can simply keep these positive emotions in my life as a constant theme.

So in your efforts to change your own theme, you are simply changing the world around you. That’s just the way it is. The only way this could fail would be in your keeping all this great stuff to yourself. But then, you’d be surrounded by people with secrets, wouldn’t you? And you would have mysteries constantly appearing in your life, wouldn’t you?

Your world and what you think is entirely up to you. What you experience around you is up to you. If you don’t like the stress in your life, if you don’t like the arguing, if you feel like you don’t control where your life is heading – change it.

I’ve laid out in this article how you can do it. You can change your life to whatever you want it to be. You can travel, become a millionaire, live a rock star’s life – anything you want. For me, I like living on a farm and having the time to do my artwork and write. You might like more action in your life – I cherish solitude. What you want in your life, what your theme is – all of this is up to you to change and sort out for yourself.

Whatever your life’s theme song is – it’s up to you. And only up to you. No one can change your life for you. Get one of the classics, or one of my books, or several – or listen to Dyer’s tapes, or Nightingale’s. Or pick up anyone else’s and play them constantly for yourself, for your own personal good.

And you’ll find your theme changing – so let us find you constantly humming your own theme song.

Dr. Robert C. Worstell, Phd

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In this video, I’ll show you how to glue straight and curved seams. In the video I already cleaned the seams with mineral spirit and applied the glue. Visit www.makinglatexclothing.com to learn to make your own latex clothing.

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Get Life Skills – Not Student Loans

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Student loans? Who needs them? Take charge of your money for the
rest of your life.

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Part I (This article)

Part II Student loan consolidation has big benefits for losers

Part III Idea beats student loan consolidation and creates a
winning mindset.

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You’ll never need student loans with these ideas.

1.Grants in place of student loans – no repayments

2. Part time earning decreases student loans

3. Economising (builds life skills) avoids some student loans

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1. Grants – Supreme way to avoid student loans

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A grant is a gift of money that you don’t have to repay. Isn’t a
$50000 grant better than taking out student loans every year for
four or five years? There is a club that keeps its members
abreast of grants that they might use. You can avoid student
loans. These grants aren’t confined to education so you aren’t
confined to avoiding student loans. If you get a grant, save
actively to build a nest egg and the right mindset.

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2. Part Time Earning

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There are lots of ways for you to work your way through college.
What I like is that they encourage an aggressive “go and
get it” mindset. Student loans encourage the “wait for
it to come to me” mindset.

I have details of how a teenage girl made a profitable website.
She’ll never need student loans!

One girl runs dogs. That’s right, she runs for half an hour with
4 dogs that need lots of exercise, then picks up the next 4 dogs.

Don’t lose sight of your target. You want to avoid student
loans, not impress your friends with how much you can spend.

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3. Economising

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I had a grant for University. Fellow students complained their
student loans or college grants were too small. I saved money
from the grant by economising.

A dollar saved is four dollars earned. You pay back about twice
as much as you borrow, with money from which the IRS has stolen
50%. So each dollar you save avoids earning four.

You can economise on these and have better health.

1. Food

2. Lodgings

3. Health

4. Transport

5. Social life

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1. Food.

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Learn to cook. You’re at the mercy of food suppliers until you
can cook. One student got into the news because student loans
only covered tinned dog-food for him to eat. That’s too
expensive! I’m cooking my own food and eating well on about$17
per week.

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2.Lodgings

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I can only suggest that you shop around. Remember that $20 saved
per week is $1000 saved from your student loans each year even
without interest payments.

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3. Health

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The damage you do to your body adds up over your lifetime, so
it’s a good idea to stay healthy. What has that to do with
student loans?

It turns out that fast food is bad for your health, and so are
most processed foods, and cooking your own food means that you
can avoid trans-fatty acids, sugar, and all the other things
that cause obesity. Curry, broccoli, tomatoes, garlic, brazil
nuts, and cabbage among other things fight cancer. And they all
make less demands on student loans.

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4.Transport

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Make enquiries. How much would you save from your student loans
by buying a bike instead of a car? Would public transport be
better? Would walking or running for exercise be even better?
How much would it cramp your style for dating?

Remember, buying a car with a student loan involves not only
repayments, but fuel and oil, repairs, licensing, and
depreciation. I travelled 2 hrs/day on my pushbike getting
exercise and no college loans.

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5. Social Life

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Look for free pastimes. If your friends aren’t interested in
ways to avoid college loans perhaps you have the wrong friends.

If you finish study at 25 and work till 60 that gives you a
working life of 35 years. So a 25 year student loan takes a big
chunk out of your life, even if you are never unemployed.

And that’s before you take out a mortgage!

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Other ways to economise

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Buy second-hand whenever possible – even your textbooks. Clothes
from the Salvation Army are cheap. Use eBay, but don’t buy
anything you don’t need. My first boss said I’d furnished my
house for less than he spent on his bedroom. Negotiate -
Important for second hand, even more for new goods. When you go
in to buy a new fridge, the attendant waits to see if you’re
stupid enough to pay the price tag, or ask for a discount.

Remember a dollar saved is four dollars in student loans that
you won’t have to pay back.

Ian Mcallister

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